I’m Millie. I’m a mom of two beautiful boys; 9 years old and 1 year old. They keep me on my toes daily. I have a wonderful fiance that helps me wrestle it all and we have a sweet fur baby named Roux. I created this blog because I wanted to share my ideas about judgment free, badass mom life. Erasing ideas of perfection so that we can really enjoy our kids and our life to the fullest is my goal for moms. I’m typically a hot mess myself and I’m okay with that. My kids don’t notice the mess, they notice the love. They don’t care about the piles of laundry that might need to be done, they love the kisses piled on their cheeks. With this in mind its helped to create a life of less stress. Hence, my motto HOT MESS. LESS STRESS. We don’t have to be perfect we just have to be there. Welcome! Please stay a while. Leave me comments and join the mailing list. 


What she said …

I’ve never had more appreciation for anyone in my entire life until I became a mom.

-Chrissy Teigen

There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.

-Jill Churchill 

A sleeping baby is the new happy hour.